Sometimes you have to weed out your “garden”.  Get rid of the drama, the cling-ons, the whores. 

I’ve had to do this a few times in my life, when I realized what I was getting from the relationship was so much less than what I was putting in.  Some people can live with getting less.  Some people can actually live with being the person taking more.  Personally, “that kind”...the “taking more kind” is the kind that I weed out.

I have learned that those types of people are way to high maintenance for me.  It’s ALL ABOUT THEM.  It’s fine for them to do the fucking over because that’s what they do, but god forbid they need to compromise or not think of themselves for one brief moment and they throw a fucking tantrum.  These people don’t get to play in my garden for long. 

Occasionally I will think about how these people got into my life, and how I totally missed who they really were and what they we truly after.  Does it bother me?  Not so much.  Does it make me weary?  Not weary but aware.  I could waste my time being annoyed and pissed off, but that’s what Karma is all about.  I can get up every day and know that I’m honest with others and I treat them how I want to be treated.  I don’t pretend to be something or someone I’m not.  I don’t lie to get ahead.  I don’t use people whom I call “friend”. 

That’s whats different about me and the weeds.  The weeds are annoying, nutrient-sucking, thieves….and once they’re gone, everything is pretty again!